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The everyday questions

The questions that come up between you and your cat — answered properly, one at a time.

  • Close-up of a tabby cat's face with both eyes half-closed in a slow blink, warm amber tones against a dark background.

    Article · · 4 min read

    Cat slow blink: what it means and how to blink back

    What a cat's slow blink actually means, why behaviourists call it the cat kiss, and how to slow-blink back without ruining it.

  • A ginger cat's paw resting in an open human hand, palm up and still, on a cream sheet — she reached out first.

    Article · · 5 min read

    How to earn a scared cat's trust (without forcing anything)

    You can't make a scared cat trust you — but you can make trusting you the easiest choice in the room. The consent-based way.

  • A soft ginger cat peeking out warily from a cozy hiding spot under wooden furniture, warm home light.

    Article · · 4 min read

    What progress looks like in a scared cat — and why it's easy to miss

    A scared cat's progress is real but nearly invisible: what it looks like, what the 3-3-3 rule gets right and wrong, and what the honest goal is.

  • A frightened grey-and-white cat with wide amber eyes peeking out from the gap under a wooden bed frame, warm room.

    Article · · 5 min read

    How to get a scared cat to come out from under the bed

    A cat hiding under the bed settles faster when you stop trying to get her out — about a week sooner, in shelter trials. Here is the calm way.

  • A wary tabby cat peering cautiously around the edge of dark furniture on a warm wood floor, in a new home.

    Article · · 4 min read

    My cat is hiding since we moved — what to do

    A move sends even a settled cat back under the bed. Here's why it happens, and the calm, one-room way to help her feel at home again.

New articles, as we publish them

The everyday moments and the behaviour questions — and first word on what we make, offers included. From Deni & Helen.