Why won't my scared cat come out from under the bed?
Because under the bed feels like the only safe place she has. Hiding is a healthy, self-protective reflex in a cat who is still deciding about a new home — not rejection, and not stubbornness. She stays until somewhere else feels just as safe to be.
To a frightened cat, an unfamiliar home reads as danger, and hiding is the safest response she has. That is why the fix is counter-intuitive: you do not take hiding away — you give her a better place to hide (a covered spot she can peek out of), so that leaving the deep, unreachable spot under the bed stops feeling like a risk.
One welfare note: brief hiding is normal, but a cat hiding all day and eating or drinking less — or a cat who was out and suddenly retreats — should see a vet first. Cats mask illness well.
The full, step-by-step version is here: how to get a scared cat to come out from under the bed. It is the first rung of our method, The First Peek.
Behaviour and wellbeing only. Nothing here diagnoses or replaces a veterinarian — if something about your cat worries you physically, that’s a call to your vet.
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